Q: Dear Donnarose, I feel I'm a good person and no different than anyone else. So I don't get why some of my friends and co-workers are jealous of me. They say certain things that just boggle my mind. Please advise. ~Jillian
A: “Jealousy is when someone counts another's blessings instead of their own.” ~Unknown
More often than not, when someone appears to be jealous of you, that's a judgment of lack towards themselves. And as a result, like the above quote says, these people will use their energy to focus on the outside of themselves, and what you have, since they're in a low vibrational state of lack. So as long as they stay in that state of energy, they will continue to dwell on your blessings instead of theirs.
What is suggested to do, and what will most likely bring this situation closer to the light, is to begin focusing on raising your vibration. As a result, you'll start seeing yourself becoming more and more untouched by the jealousy aimed at you. And your desire to react negatively, will switch to doing something positive for yourself. This will be the key action to help you maintain your higher vibration. And as you practice this, your energy will continue to be spent on accomplishing things for yourself. Meaning, instead of dwelling on those jealous people, you'll be busy receiving the next divine step to take to carry out your divine mission, and your purpose for being here. Now that sounds better doesn't it? Well, this is truly what happens at a higher vibration. Now especially in the beginning, if what was suggested above becomes a little challenging at times, always reach for your angels. They are always ready to assist you, and will help bring more peace and harmony to your relationships.~♥
Q: Dear Donnarose, my sweetheart and partner in life passed away suddenly last month. Regarding his strict belief system, he never subscribed to the life after death theory. Does this mean that upon his death, his soul is capable of realizing that his long-held beliefs have been wrong? ~Kindest regards, Lily
A: “Any restricted beliefs a soul once held in mind, are definitely remembered, but the effects are left behind.” ~Donnarose Melvin
I'm so sorry for your loss. Regarding souls, I can only go by what I've heard during the conversations I've had with thousands of souls who have appeared in full form during many of my client's sessions.
To answer your question, yes, your partner's soul is aware of every type of belief he ever had, not only in this lifetime, but during other incarnations as well. Only on the other side, there's no judgment, or labeling something wrong, or other human emotions about anything that's transpired. The soul's perspective comes from a place of love. So instead of his soul judging his once restricted beliefs, the lessons that have been learned due to these beliefs, will help when deciding what his soul will do next.
In addition, consider that our soul's contract will have us acting, or believing in certain ways to produce results that are already written before the soul comes into the physical body. So your partner's restricted beliefs may have enabled him for example, to pay karmic debt of some kind that was in accordance with his soul's contract. As I sometimes say, there's often perfection in imperfection. Meaning, while we may feel our loved-one's beliefs or actions may not be helpful, and may be restrictive, it may be exactly what was needed to fulfill their soul's contract.
And finally, it is felt that your mind can rest knowing that any negative effects your partner may have experienced due to his restricted beliefs, are no longer hurting him as a soul. Anything that is unlike love that he experienced, left with his physical body. His soul is supported and surrounded with so much love. And, when ready, you can connect to his love, which will definitely bring you comfort and peace, which is what I wish for you as well. ~♥
Donnarose Melvin is a professional intuitive medium, and also does powerful distant energy clearings. Her knowledge from her BA degree in Psychology, along with her natural intuitive gifts, have helped thousands achieve increased peace and success. Please send your questions to: Donnarose1010@gmail.com or Facebook private msg her at Donnarose Soulful Media. She will select questions each month to share with you. Donnarose regrets that unpublished questions cannot be answered individually. If you’d like an energy clearing, or an intuitive reading, please contact Donnarose at the email address above.