Soulfully Yours Donnarose

| December 1, 2015

soulQ: Dear Donnarose, our 28 year old daughter has the kindest boyfriend and he treats her like gold.  However, she doesn't seem to appreciate this wonderful treatment.  Any insight? ~Thanks, Karen

A: ~ “We can genuinely respond to, and receive one hundred percent of love from someone, when we're at that level of love for ourselves.” ~Donnarose Melvin

Self-acceptance, self-worth and self-love are key factors in this particular situation.  I could write a book on this topic.  But since space is limited, the bottom-line is this;  as my quote above points out, the only way the light will go on with your daughter seeing her boyfriend's wonderful treatment and love for her, is if the light gets turned on inside her first.  Let's say your daughter is at the 60% mark of self-love.  Without even realizing, she will only see and allow herself to receive 60% of love from her boyfriend, even though he is giving her 100%.  She will remain blind so to speak, to the other 40%.  This often relates to when we hear people say, “How could you break up with him/her, he/she was the best person in the world and so good to you?”  And then what commonly happens, is that the person at 60% self-love, starts to date someone at that same level of love for themselves, and often unfavorable results ensue.  But there is hope here.

Whatever caused your daughter to feel less than loving towards herself needs to be forgiven, and that includes forgiving herself.  This will help remove some of the stuck energy she's been carrying around for years.  Most of the old negative beliefs we carry around about ourselves, were caused by people and situations that aren't even around anymore.  So the old beliefs need to be let go as well.  However, they must be replaced with new and more loving, rational beliefs.  Therefore, in addition to the forgiveness part, it will help your daughter to think and believe thoughts about herself that are actually true and in alignment with love, which will be at a higher vibration.  As a result, chances are high that she will then be able to see and appreciate treatment towards her that is also at this higher level.  And this includes the high doses of love from her boyfriend.~♥  

Q:  Dear Donnarose, I've had many psychic readings, and I'm very intuitive as well.  I'd like to be able to pick up on things for myself once in a while, but unsure how this would work.  How would I read myself without using any type of cards? ~Blessings, Christina 

A:  ~ “When reading yourself the best thing to do, is to trust the first message that comes through for you." ~Donnarose Melvin 

What works for me is to keep the process very simple.  To prepare to read yourself when alone with your guides and angels, it's important to get your mind in a peaceful state of energy, ie., take some deep breaths, burn or spray sage, light a candle, etc.  Make certain to initially thank Archangel Michael for protecting you and keeping you safe.  Invite in whoever you wish to give you messages (Angels, God, Universe, Jesus, etc.), yet stay open to others as well.  Initially write down questions.  Remain open and receptive to whatever messages come through.  Ask your first question.  You can close your eyes if you wish, and just pay attention to whatever thoughts come in your mind, or what you may see flash before you, or whispered in your ear. (It depends which of your gifts are more heightened at that time.)  This is your first answer to write down.  Trust the first message that comes in, and refrain from second-guessing yourself.  The same way you would trust a message from one of the Angels on a pulled card, is the same trust, just without the card.  Repeating the question over and over won't work, as that means faith and trust got thrown out the window, and your ego took over.  Take a nice peaceful deep breath, and ask your next question.

I recommend you stay in the zone and go through your entire list of questions.  And after you're done, express your gratitude, and then enjoy reading the answers.  Then equally important, is to follow through with the messages that came through for you, while allowing your Angels to assist you. ~♥

DonnaroseDonnarose Melvin is a professional psychic, medium and energy healer, whose pleasure it is to assist clients worldwide. She incorporates knowledge from her degree in psychology, along with her clairvoyant, clairaudient, clairsentient, claircognizant, and empathic gifts to guide her clients towards peace and success.  Please send your questions to SoulfullyYoursDonnarose@gmail.com or private message her via facebook: Soulfully Yours Donnarose.  She will select questions each month to share with you. Donnarose regrets that unpublished questions cannot be answered individually. If you’d like an intuitive reading, contact Donnarose at the email address above. ~ ♥

 

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