Soulful Advice from Donnarose

| October 1, 2013
Donnarose Donnarose Melvin is a professional psychic, medium and energy healer, whose pleasure it is to assist clients worldwide. She incorporates knowledge from her degree in psychology, along with her clairvoyant, clairaudient, clairsentient and empathic gifts to guide her clients towards peace and success.  Please send your questions to GoWithYourSoul@gmail.com or private message her via facebook: Go With Your Soul. Donnarose will select questions each month to share with you. She regrets that unpublished questions cannot be answered individually. ~ ♥

Q:  Dear Donnarose, my heart was broken the other day when my daughter who is thirteen asked me this question- and this was after she cried her eyes out.  "Mom- I’m always giving to people, and always go out of my way for my friends.  Why don’t I get any of that back when I need someone there for ME?  I am so tired of giving."  I answered the best I could.  What advice would you give? ~Joanne

A: ~ “To best help ye, I must start with me."- Donnarose Melvin
It’s so hard to watch our children suffer in any way.  The thing is, we can tell our children we love them every day.  But when there is some circumstance whenever it started, that causes them to feel less self-worth, many will tend to allow others to take advantage of them, and/or will try to compensate by over-giving to feel better.  This is only a temporary fix, as over time this imbalance builds resentment.  It also lowers their self-esteem even more because they start to see the lack of reciprocation on top of this.  Increased self-esteem, self-worth, self-respect, but most importantly, self-love is the key.  Your daughter will benefit immensely if she starts to value and fully love and accept herself starting from the inside.  Once this occurs, something will click inside of her.  She will hear herself say no more often, but with love.  She will start to see certain friends drop out of her life, but will gain new friends whose treatment of her will match the level of love she has gained for herself. ~

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Q:  Dear Donnarose, please help me with a family situation.  My mom and her three sisters are fighting.  Also, there is sickness in the family, and much drama going on over a trust situation.  Can I help mend my family without taking sides? ~ Lara

A: ~ “Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves, without any insistence that they satisfy you."- Wayne
Lara, the reason I love this quote above so much, is because it lightens the energy and frees everyone.  If you live by this recommended concept, then the answer is twofold.  You won’t need to be the one to mend your family.  And the only side to be on..is Love.  Most people respond better to compassion, understanding, non-judgment, and genuine love.  As you send this type of energy towards your family, it will shift and lift their vibrational frequency, and clarity becomes more of a possibility.  And with clarity comes resolution, and for the benefit of all involved.

Most of these types of situations stem from feeling unloved, and unheard.  Also, with illness in the family, the fear of loss can add to this.  Surround this entire situation with love and light.  You are very intuitive, and your thoughts are powerful.  With considering the above, and thinking only the thoughts you want to manifest, the outcome should be in all of your favor.  ~♥

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Q:  Dear Donnarose, how does one deal with malicious people who threaten you, make disparaging remarks about you to others, etc., when all you've been is kind to them?  How do you deal with mean-spiritedness? ~Angelica

A: ~ "Sending someone love and light, can change things practically overnight." -Donnarose Melvin
In this particular situation, this is a classic case of what I call, toxins in, toxins out.  If someone has insecurity issues or other issues that causes one to feel less than love for oneself, it won’t take much to see the toxins surface.  It is clear this woman felt a potential threat to losing what she felt she worked so hard to gain.  This woman lacks confidence and love towards herself, hence, her response matched this by speaking badly about you.  This was her attempt to protect her territory, which is an illusion, because she doesn’t own anyone.  The best thing to do in this situation is to keep it simple.  Allow the people who want to remain friends to contact you, etc.  And let the others go…but with love, if you want this to work.  When you are ready, the thing that is most powerful on altering the behavior of someone like this, is to saturate her with white light and loving thoughts.  This will seem like a miracle, as the changes that occur by doing this are remarkable.  It may feel like a huge challenge, but it will be worth it.  Trust me when I say, it truly works. ~♥

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