Soulful Advice from Donnarose

| January 1, 2014
Donnarose Donnarose Melvin is a professional psychic, medium and energy healer, whose pleasure it is to assist clients worldwide. She incorporates knowledge from her degree in psychology, along with her clairvoyant, clairaudient, clairsentient and empathic gifts to guide her clients towards peace and success.  Please send your questions to GoWithYourSoul@gmail.com or private message her via facebook: Go With Your Soul. Donnarose will select questions each month to share with you. She regrets that unpublished questions cannot be answered individually. ~ ♥

Q:  Dear Donnarose, I’m very spiritual and intuitive, and intend on continuing to grow in this area.  How do I handle the non-supporters in my life who do not believe in the unseen, or think that all this intuition talk is evil? ~Melissa

 A: ~ “Live by example, not explanation.” – Donnarose Melvin
The way to handle these types of situations is to try to keep it simple.  And that is what my quote will lead you to do.  Meaning, live your truth.  Live on the side of your soul, not your ego.  Your ego will try to get you to prove yourself and explain about your spirituality.  This won’t work for very long anyway, as people tend to be more convinced by action, rather than explanations.  Remember always, that your Inner power is stronger than any negative feedback you may get from the non-supporters.  Live your truth, and equally important, LOVE yourself during the process.  As a result, this relaxed confident, loving energy will emanate out of you, and will be felt by those you mentioned.  And you will see a change in them that will be more in alignment with love.  And for the rest, let them be, as it may not be time for them to walk on this path.  And their energy will drop off because the darkness cannot thrive in the light, hence, they will not be able to stay around you.  And what will start to happen, is you will be able to continue to live by example with more ease…and peace. ~ ♥

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Q:  Dear Donnarose, when I was younger, the things I used to do to date women didn’t seem to work too well.  So I figured as the years went by and I got older, I’d try the opposite of what I used to do, and it still didn’t work out. What’s left at this point? ~Ron

 A: ~ “If your energy matches what you think you desire, the chances of it manifesting, will be much higher” – Donnarose Melvin Well Ron, if you desire different results, it’s your energy (vibe) that must change.  You mentioned in your extended email that you were looking to have more than a friendship.  So you dated others and it never worked out to your satisfaction.  The reason was that your Inner energy (vibe) you sent out was, and still is, that you just want to be friends with the women you’d meet, especially now due to your medical condition.  Yet your actions towards the women you met were geared towards wanting more than friendship.  Everything is energy.  These women simply responded to your true energy (vibe) which was your desire to be just friends.  Consider that the truth always wounds up surfacing, but in the form of energy.  Until your energy or vibe you send out changes to truly wanting to be more than friends, you will get just that…another friend.  However, if this is truly what you want, then the change that needs to be made, is accepting that this is totally okay, and a good thing.~♥

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Q:  Dear Donnarose, the past few years are starting to take its toll.  My mom died 12/30 and I’m in charge, but I’m still confused with all the paperwork she left.  Then last month I had enough of my daughter, and had to cut her off. (She’s 28, married with 2 great kids, but my husband and I paid all their bills for a year while neither worked.)  Now I ‘m moving to my mom’s house and have to find work there.  P.S. I got a lump under my arm when everything happened last month.  I think it’s from stress. Am I making the right moves? Thanks, Dolores

A: ~ “When it comes to everyone’s needs, balance is the key“ – Donnarose Melvin
I’m sorry for the loss of your mom Dolores.  You as well as many of my clients have so much on your plate.  But many feel they must conquer all of it.  As a result, due to the heavy imbalance, it’s illness, cancer, lumps, etc., that manifest, and for different reasons.  First, yes, as you mentioned, being overstressed certainly is a huge factor.  Another major reason is due to repressed negative emotions, which so often has to do with unresolved conflict with one or more family member.  Another reason I see illness happen a lot, is that sometimes it’s the only way the Universe can get our attention.  Many who have an illness are at the point where it has been all about doing for everyone else, or trying to control everything, and their energy becomes depleted.  The latter simply will-not-work as it’s not in alignment with enough self-love.

Intuitively, it feels you’re on the right path.  However, your situation relates to all of the above factors, especially the need for more self-love.  When loving ourselves becomes a priority, things start to change for the better.  We find ourselves saying no more often than not, but with love.  The only option of treatment we will accept from others will be nothing less than loving.  We start delegating tasks which helps our energy and physical body stay healthy.  We find ourselves emanating love to those around us, instead of resentment.  We begin to allow ourselves to let go of negative emotions related to past and current situations.  And this release makes us feel more at peace, and keeps us healthier.  This is all that tends to happen when we love ourselves.  It’s the opposite of what we’ve been programmed to do.  When you keep pouring love into yourself, the overflow will benefit all those involved in your life.  But this time it will include you.  I wish you peace Dolores. ~♥

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